TLC #015: Navigating Relationships

5 minutes

Nov 6

Anchor Verse of the Week

"And above all things have fervent love for one another, for love will cover a multitude of sins." - 1 Peter 4:8

Good relationships are like the treasures of life, but like any treasure, they don't just pop up; you gotta dig deep. Let's get into the real deal about improving your connections with those you care about:

1. Own Your Actions

It’s a game-changer when you take control of how you feel and act. Instead of waiting on your partner to put that smile on your face, find ways to light up from within. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Remember:
Action Tip: Every morning, remind yourself of one thing you love about YOU.

2. Spread Kindness Like Confetti

You know that golden rule? Treat others how you want to be treated. Want love? Give love. Want respect? Show respect.
Action Tip: Next time you meet your partner or a friend, give them a genuine compliment. Watch that energy change!

3. Grow Together, Not Apart

Arguments are like storms; they come and go. Instead of trying to "win", try to understand. If your partner’s hurt, that means the team's hurt.
Action Tip: When things heat up, take a breather. Come back when you’re cool, and chat like you’re both on the same team. Because you are.

4. Keep the Spark Alive

Remember when y’all couldn’t get enough of each other? Life happens, but love should always be on the calendar.
Action Tip: Plan a surprise date night. No excuses. Even if it's just chilling at home with a movie.

5. Count Blessings, Not Problems

Switch the vibe. Before you drop that complaint, find something good to say first. It's all about balance.
Action Tip: Keep a gratitude jar. Drop in good memories or things you appreciate about each other.

6. Laugh Out Loud. Together

Life’s too short to be serious all the time. Find joy. Find laughter. Find the silly moments.
Action Tip: Watch a comedy together or attend a local comedy show. Share a laugh!

7. Serve and Be Served

There’s something magical about doing good together. It could be helping out in the community or simply doing something sweet for your partner.
Action Tip: Cook a meal together and share it. Or maybe help out in a local community event.

Navigating relationships ain’t easy, but with some patience, love, and the right compass (that’s us!), you’re set for the journey. Stay strong, stay connected, and above all, let love guide you.

Till the next guide,
The Life Compass Crew

Devin Gough https://www.devingough.com