TLC #017: The Balance of Brotherhood
Anchor Verse of the Week
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” - Proverbs 17:17
Hey Life Compass Crew,
In the hustle and bustle of life, have you ever felt like you're running solo? Like the bond you once had with the people close to you is getting weak? It's easy to let life's fast pace make us sideline some of the most important parts of our journey: our friendships.
Let's break this down:
1. Take a Pulse Check:
Actionable Tip: Reflect on your closest friendships. When was the last time you checked in or hung out? If it's been a while, shoot them a text or give them a call. Keeping connections alive can be as simple as sending a “how are you?” message.
2. Prioritize Your Time:
Actionable Tip: Look at your weekly schedule. How much time do you set aside for friends versus work or other commitments? If your buddies aren't getting much of your time, try setting up a regular hangout. Maybe a weekly lunch, movie night, or game session. Make it a ritual.
3. Know Your Worth (And Theirs):
Actionable Tip: Sometimes we think we have to do everything by ourselves. But guess what? Your friends can be a great support system. If you're swamped, lean on your crew. Share tasks or ask for advice. Remember, it's okay to ask for help.
Deep Dive:
Ask yourself if you've been missing out on those deep conversations, the fun hangouts, or the mutual support. If the answer is yes, reflect on why. Are you chasing after things that might not matter in the long run? It's okay to want success, but not at the cost of losing your brothers.
Let's not let the ‘busy’ badge be a barrier to building bridges with our brothers. Our friendships are just like plants; they need regular watering and sunshine to thrive. If they matter to you (and I bet they do!), make room for them, not just in your calendar, but in your heart.
Stay connected, navigate together, and remember: brotherhood is a bond that once forged, shines forever.
Stay grounded,
The Life Compass Team
